May 29, 2023

*1 Your gender: Female
*2 Straight/gay/bi?: Straight with no curiosities
*3 Single?: indeed
*4 Want to be?: no, no I don’t.
*5 Your birth day: April 13, 1974
*6 Age you act: oh dear! I am notorious for being bubbly, even when I’m miserable.
*7 Age you wish you were: I just got to 30, I want to enjoy it.
*8 Your height: 5’2 1/2″
*9 The color of your eyes: brown
*10 Happy with it?: yes
*11 The color of your hair: blonde (dreadlocks)
*12 Happy with it?  Yes, quite. It’s certainly one of my signatures.
*13 Left/right/ambidextrous? ambidextrous
*14 Your living arrangement?: me, myself and moi
*27 Your family: is quite dysfunctional
*29 What’s your job: Associate Editor (Features), Internet Editor
*30 Piercings?: ears, belly button, tongue, nose
*31 Tattoos?: not yet, but before I leave Trinidad.
*32 Obsessions?: Internet
35 Do you speak another language?: eh… pocito
36 Have a favorite quote?: No, I can’t say that I do; except my mother always says, “Where ignorance is bliss, ’tis folly to be wise’, and in Barbados there’s a saying, “Hard ears you won’t hear, by and by you will feel.” don’t know who said them originally, but I quite like them.
*37 Do you have a webpage?: I have several sites

(Is it just me, or have you noticed they’re questions missing.)

DEEP THOUGHTS about life and you in it

*38 Do you live in the moment?: Whenever I can.
*39 Do you consider yourself tolerant of others?: I can be, I’ve developed far more patience as I’ve grown older.
*40 Do you have any secrets?: oh yes.
*41 Do you hate yourself?: no
*42 Do you like your handwriting?: other people like it more than I do.
*43 Do you have any bad habits?: chocolate
*44 What is the compliment you get most from people?: “I love what you’re wearing”, and “I love your hair.”
*45 If a movie was made about your life, what would it be called?:  Osun’s Child (Omo Osun)
*46 What’s your biggest fear?: money and not having it.
*47 Can you sing: in perfect key.
*48 Do you ever pretend to be someone else just to look cool?: oh, why fucking bother? Seems stupid to me.
*49 Are you a loner?: Oh yes! However, I’m becoming a little more social than in recent years. Trinidad’s hard core liming scene will do that to you.
*51 If you were another person, would you be friends with you?: If I were man, I would love me, and know how to keep my ass up every night. If I were a woman, I’d love me too.
*52 Are you a daredevil?: Yes, indeed I am. I think to test the boundaries of life should be the goal of every human. However, Buddah say “Everything in moderation, including moderation.”
*53 Is there anything you fear or hate about yourself?: I don’t hate anything about myself, but I know I have habits I want to break. I fear my spirit’s connection to the Universe sometimes, and struggle with control over my life and my actions. I fear the intensity with which I push myself to experience life.
*54 Are you passive or aggressive?: Agressive, direct and to the motherfucking point. However, I have been known to play dead to catch a cobbeaux (Trini vulture.)
*55 Have you got a ?: Do you really have to play to win the lottery?: Yes I guess you do.
*56 What is your greatest strength and weakness?: strength: self confidence  weakness: my body sometimes.
*57 If you could change one thing about yourself? get more fit
*58 There are three wells- love, beauty and creativity, which one do you choose?: I am an Omo Osun, my mother allows me to choose all three, since she owns all three.
*59 How do you vent?: in my blog
*60 Do you think you are emotionally strong?: well if I weren’t these motherfuckers out here woulda kill I ass long time, oui!
*61 Is there anything you regret doing/not doing in life?: I regret not getting it together with my Boobie. I will always regret that.
*62 Do you think life has been good so far?: I could complain, but why bore you?
*63 What is the most important lesson you’ve learned from life?:  That unconditional love is a choice you make, as much as something that happens.
*64 What do you like the most about your body?: my small ankles, and developed calves; my tight and muscular pussy.
*65 And least?: My torso in general, even though it’s very curvy.
*66 Do you think you are good looking?: Yes I do.
*67 Are you confident?: Didn’t this survey ask that already? Yes, since you insist.
*68 What is the fictional character you’re most like?: It’s a toss up between Tigger and Winnie The Pooh.
*69 Do people know how you feel? No, most people tell me I’m kind of hard to read.


*71 Smoke cigarettes?: it’s been six weeks since my last one.
*72 Do drugs?: Leagalise the weed….
*73 Read the newspaper?: work at one, and have to.
*74 Pray?: every day, one way or another.
*75 Go to church? ahh…. no.
*76 Talk to strangers who IM you?: no, don’t IM much at all.
*77 Sleep with stuffed animals?: oi? what ya tink this is? A pappy show?
*78 Take walks in the rain?: No chile! Lickle water fall on me, I start to sniffle.
*79 Talk to people even though you hate them?:  If I must, I’m civil. If they fly up, I does slap back down.
*80 Drive?:I can, but not in about five years and even then I was a learner,


*82 Liked your voice?: yes. I think I have a nice voice, and people have asked me more than once to consider broadcast media.
*83 Hurt yourself?: yes I’m sad to report.
*84 Been out of the country?:  yes.
*85 Eaten something that made other people sick?: hell no!
*86 Burped?: Ahhh… my compliments to the cook!
*87 Been unfaithful?: Yes.
*88 Been in love? Not in a long, long time.
*89 Done drugs?:  Oi! Ya fucking ask me that already!
*90 Gone skinny dipping?: Uhh, I’m sure I have but the details escape me at this moment.
*92 Had a surgery?: yes, lost my tonsils when I was five.
*93 Ran away from home?: yes, frequently during my stormy pubescent years.
*94 Played strip poker?: don’t even know how to play regular poker.
*95 Gotten beaten up?: yes
*97 Been picked on?: yes
*98 Been on stage?: indeed. I grew up in playhouses, my mother was/is an actress.
*99 Been so drunk that you know you’re supposed to go out on a date with someone, but you can’t remember with who or when and that you faint when you look at yourself in the mirror in the morning, not to mention your breath? : uhhh, no. I pass.
*100 Slept outdoors?:  yes
*101 Thought about suicide?: yes, when I was recovering from my rape etc.
*102 Pulled an all-nighter?: from time to time.
*103 If yes, what is your record?: 36 hours.
*104 Gone one day without food?: yes.
*105 Talked on the phone all night?: Definitely…
*106 Slept together with the opposite sex without actually having sex?: yes
*107 Slept all day?:  when my body needed it.
*108 Killed someone?: no!
*109 Made out with a stranger?: no!
*110 Had sex with a stranger?: no!
*111 Thought you’re going crazy?: occasionally
*112 Kissed the same sex?: not as an adult.
*113 Done anything sexual with the same sex?: no.
*114 Been betrayed?:  yes
*115 Had a dream that came true?:  one or two
*116 Broken the law?: yes
*117 Met a famous person?: yes
*118 Have you ever killed an animal by accident?: no, not that I can remember. I kill cockaroaches, does that count?
*146 Stolen anything?: shoplifted when I was a teenager, stole from classmates too during my stormy pubescent years.
*147 Been on radio/TV.?: yes
*148 Been in a mosh-pit?:  indeed fucking not! The first person who push me, getting a fucking slap, oui?
*149 Had a nervous breakdown? no
*150 Considered religious vocation?: yes, am doing so now.  
*151 Been criticised about your sexual performance?: no
*152 Bungee jumped?: no, but I might be convinced.
*153 Had a dream that kept coming back?: yes

CLOTHES and other fashion

*154 Shoe brand?: Don’t do brand names
*155 Brand of clothing?:  Please see #154
*157 What are you normally wearing to school/work?: Clean and depends on the mood
*159 Wear hats?: Occasionally
*160 Judge other people by their clothing?: It’s hard not to notice and wonder about a person who matches a black blouse with red, yellow and pink flowers about six or seven inches wide printed on the fabric, and yellow, brown, green and blue plaid skirt. However, I try to remind myself of my mother’s advice: If everyone had taste, how would you know what was good.
*161 Wear make-up?: yes I do, but not all the time.
*162 Favorite place to shop?: Cave Shepard I suppose.
*163 Favorite article of clothing?: my jeans
*164 Are you trendy?: no dear, I have style and style is perennial.
*165 Would you rather wear a uniform to school?: Oi, is a grown woman ya so!
*166 Believe in life on other planets?: It would be an awful waste of space if there wasn’t, n’est pas?
*167 Miracles?: I believe in the power of the mind to manifest radical change.
*168 Astrology?: yes
*169 Magic?: Yes
*170 God? : yes
*171 Satan?: no
*172 Santa?:  no
*174 Luck?: yes
*175 Love at first sight?: sure, but that shit doesn’t happen to me.
*176 Yin and Yang?: yes
*177 Witches?: yes
*178 Easter bunny?: no
*179 Believe it’s possible to remain faithful forever?: yes
*180 Believe there’s a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?: no
*181 Do you wish on stars?: rarely
*182 Did you get frightened or uncomfortable seeing that as a section title?: what?
*183 Do you remember your first love?: every day of my life
*184 Still love him/her?: yes, yes I do.
*185 Do you consider love a mistake?: I consider love to be paramount.
*186 What do you find romantic?: Sensitivity, being there, imagination, conversation and sunsets.
*187 Turn-on?: kissing
*188 Turn-off?: insensitivty
*189 Do you base your judgement on looks alone: no
*200 If someone you had no interest in dating expressed interest in dating you, how would you feel?: flattered I guess.
*201 Do you prefer knowing someone before dating them or going “blind”?: I want to know who you are.
*202 Have you ever wished it was more “socially acceptable” for a girl to ask a guy out?: Social acceptance my fat red ass.
*203 Have you ever been romantically attracted to someone physically unattractive: yes
*204 Do you think the opposite sex finds you good looking?: Yes, unfortunately.
*205 What is best about the opposite sex?: The tall ones can reach things out and from places I need chairs and thick books to reach.
*206 What is the worst thing about the opposite sex?: pure, unadulterated selfishness
*207 What’s the last present someone gave you?: nice lotion and body spritz from Asha.
*208 Are you in love?: no
*209 Do you consider your significant other hot?: I have no significant other.
*210 What would you do if you were walking down the street and saw some hot guy/girl standing on the sidewalk?: Gape.

*211 That haunted you?:  Boobie
*212 You wanted to kill?: The Young Mr K
*213 That you laughed at?:  SD1
*214 That laughed at you?: SD1
*215 That turned you on?: The Young Mr K
*217 That broke your heart?: PHG/Sweet Thing/ImFuckingFedUp
*218 To disappoint you?: The Young Mr K
*219 To ask you out?: The Mighty Tick!
*220 To make you cry?: Me
*221 To brighten up your day?: syciano
*222 That you thought about?: me
*223 You saw a movie with?: my brother
*224 You talked to on the phone?: The Young Mr K
*225 You talked to through IM?: I can’t remember
*226 You saw?: Neighbour
*227 You lost?: Keffi
*229 You thought was completely insane?: Don’t want to say
*230 You wanted to be?: Me
*231 You told off?:  The Young Mr K
*232 You trusted?: My mother
*233 You turned down?: Hmmmm…. happens so often.

*234 Smiled?:  today
*235 Laughed?: today
*236 Cried?:  today
*237 Bought something?: today
*238 Danced?: two days ago on my way to the shower
*239 Were sarcastic?: Today
*240 hugged someone: Today
*241 Talked to an ex?:  Two months ago
*242 Watched your fave movie?: A while
*243 Had a nightmare?: In October
*245 Talked on the phone?: Tonight
*246 Listened to the radio?: This morning
*247 Watched TV?: Its on right now.
*248 Went out?: Two weekends ago.
*249 Helped someone?: today
*250 Were mean?: never mean.
*251 Sang?: yesterday
*252 Saw a movie in a theater?:  a while… months and months (ROTK)


dayo's mama, writer, web developer, orisha devotee, omo yemoja, dos aguas, apple addict, obsessive reader, sci-fi fan, blog pig, trini-bajan, book slut, second life entrepreneur, combermerian, baby mama, second life, music, music, music!

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dayo's mama, writer, web developer, orisha devotee, omo yemoja, dos aguas, apple addict, obsessive reader, sci-fi fan, blog pig, trini-bajan, book slut, second life entrepreneur, combermerian, baby mama, second life, music, music, music!


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